Ok, so I figured that I would elaborate a little on how we keep kink in our relationship while living at home with His parents. It's not exactly easy to do and I know that sometimes I get cranky because we don't have the time/space/privacy to do the things that we both enjoy beyond sex.

So, usually we wait until both of His parents have gone to bed before we do anything. Because of the way the house is and where His dad sleeps, we have to be quiet with everything otherwise he'll hear. I've become pretty damned good at being mostly quiet during sex so we don't have to worry about that. I have a love of thuddy toys like crops, floggers, paddles and those definately are too loud. He has figured out that laying the handle of the flogger in His lap and taking a few strands to hit my thighs with gives a good sting while not making too much noise. If He wants to use the whole flogger He usually just hits alot softer than He otherwise would.

Another thing we like to play with is sensations. Ice cubes and candles are really good sensation play items while also being silent...well maybe not silent. *grins* Sometimes a girl can't help but be a little noisy! Also just being cuffed and blindfolded is something that I have learned to really enjoy as it ups the sensations against my skin, while being part of the things that we can do without being overly noisy.

Gonna jump back to not being able to wear my collar much for a moment here. He made my collar for me about 3 or so months into our relationship. Yes, we started out vanilla. *gasp* It's black leather, kinda thick, with a D-ring in the middle and two small spikes on each side. It looks very gothy and I can't sleep in it due to the spikes. I also cannot wear it often unless we are out because it makes His parents uncomfortable and they are kind enough to let me live here with Him even though it goes against what they were taught and their religion. Sometimes it's hard on me that I can't really wear my collar. It's the one thing that almost any slave would say reminds them of their place. So we have been trying to think of other things that I can do/wear to remind me until we get a steel collar. Very interested in sleep bondage...Just a chain from the bed and then around my ankle. Something that I would have to wear while sleeping or while at home to kind of act as my collar.

Hopefully soon I will have some stories and other fun things to add here. I'm going to be working on my writing as well so i'll post those here as I finish them. I may also post random recipes because I love to bake and I love being able to share my awesome recipes with other people.

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